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1. Anon said,

   August 17, 2009 @ 3:05 pm

   I’m not sure if this post will be deleted or not, but I sure hope that it’s not true that in order to be successful, you can’t be nice. This is a complete misconception, and why most people aren’t successful. Because they’re too afraid to lose their character in the name of being wealthy.

   This post implies that unless you decide to stop being the nice guy, you will be bankrupt, or be poor for the rest of your life.

   Don’t get me wrong, I agree that you have to take action and work smart in order to get ahead. But the very idea of me not being nice so that I could make money - well sorry, I’ll find the guy who will tell me I can have both.

   -Anon

2. Henry Gold said,

   August 17, 2009 @ 3:21 pm

   Anon,

   You could be a nice guy on your personal life with others as well as people from a different industry.

   However, in business, it becomes impersonal. When I said you shouldn’t be a good guy, it means that you should fight to become the #1 guy on certain keywords, the #1 guy on your market, and etc.

   Basically, you need to do whatever it takes to get your market share. Find any successful guy who will tell you different story than me.

3. Elsa said,

   August 18, 2009 @ 6:32 am

   OK, I get it. Personally, I gotta be nice to everybody, but in business, I can’t be a “nice” (nice) girl

   I’ll be waiting for your next business wisdom

4. Marcus said,

   August 19, 2009 @ 3:18 pm

   Hi Henry,
   no, the reality you portray is JUST ONE of many possible realities and definitely only in a very limited, temporary and deeply Egobased sense true. To absolutely proof that I would need to tell you the long tale of my own lifestory and what happened after I received deepest spiritual enlightenment after a NearDeathExperience in a true encounter with GOD and total access to the full universal consciousness. In fact I saw how dramatically our future will change globally to the incredible better with the deepest birthache of whole egotistic industrial dinosaurs and their outdated paradigms fading away but all these is such a complex matter that it would need to type several books about it - and indeed thats what I am going to do and already doing and it will be without any doubt a bestseller for many years since I never lost this access to divine universal consciousness ever and just as a necessity of survival all that I saw during the NDE will come to happen and many things in fact already happened. I sure understand all your view and on what factors/paradigms/CURRENT realities it is based on but I ABSOLUTELY GRANT AND ASSURE YOU that all these egobased survival factors will completely collapse into their illusive vanity within this century ALREADY as humanity will mature spiritually quite dramatically and invent the needed technologies to transcend the dinosaur millenias old survival paradigms to such an utmost extend that almost nobody is currently aware of it, yet it WILL happen and as soon as all these paradigms totally fall apart each and every business strategy/philosophy will become fully obsolete as their very foundation simply vanished. Everything the mind can imagine will be invented/realized simply because otherwise the mind couldnt even imagine it.
   May be you know that when you live your body at the time of death through the light of your soul you will have a life-review of all events and incidents that ever happened in your life etc. as they are all recorded and as well documented and proven in many thousands of NDE -testimonies. Though there already exists a superabundance of proof one might not believe/research/inquire them, yet once you experience it YOURSELF you simply KNOW in utmost certainity what some religious folks struggle their whole life hard to only believe. In an unconscious rememberance of our spiritual existence and nature millions of inventories were made from the C6H6 ringformula to Albert Einsteins e= mc² to our DVD players where a laserbeam of light reads out the endless amounts of stored and recorded data encoded on the DVD, just as the light of our soul stores ALL memory of our entire life, embedded during our physical life in the body in the DNA structure, released at the time of bodydeath into light. My life after that NDE and its incredible series of “miracles” (just based on utmost access to the whole universal Godconsciousness and its overwhelming awesome knowledge but though explainable every “normal” human being would surely call it a row of miracles because only very few people have this full access while IN the body still, we all have it at the time of “dying” and after that) But as said to express that and the deep quantum mechanics of spirituality (of what law of attraction is just a very primitive 1×1 aspect yet not even this is fully mastered by more than just a few) really needs a couple of books as minimum and cant be done in a blogcomment
   Yet all that the enlightened masters from Krisna over Buddha, Christ and many others tried to teach and tell has such an incredible amount of most practical implications and consequences but this knowledge will be guarded for as long as humanity is not mature enough as a whole not to abuse every technology for self-destruction and warfare (just looking at atombomb vs. nuclear energy) There will be in this century a tremendous quantumjump in technologies as well as spiritual maturity and responsibility since we simply cant afford these egotistic stoneage survival of the fittest cavemen paradigms anymore. They were valid and even practical and beneficial (for the fitter at least ) for some millenia but they became our worst own selfmade enemy just as there can neverever be a “winner” in a nuclear holocaust for example. At the root of all these paradigms is of course fear and since even our -distorted- religious doctrines separated us from the real truth of GOD with their fear inducing manipulative indoctrinations for millenia nobody really knew how to overcome these fears as this needs more than just a few enlightened masters but some kind of collective enlightenment and proper conduct, experience, knowledge, maturity, integrity and technology to leave collectively the “rat race”. This INDEED WILL HAPPEN, the invention of the internet as a physical manifestation of interconnectedness of what I call the GODsoulmatrix that connects all of us with each other via our higher Selfs and GOD (for example responsible for the circumstance that as you think of somebody this person starts to call you and countless other phenomena) was not an “accident” but one step in the creation of a global consciousness that will evolve this collective enlightenment over time under the pressure of urgent changes due to climate changes, ethnic, economical and ethic problems, conflicts like war, hunger, injustice, terror etc. and the limited ressources and commodities etc. as the needed birthache for becoming really serious with spiritual consciousness and not just leaving it at lip-confessions. As soon as these millenia old ratrace paradigms are collectively abolished much much much more powerful concepts/strategies/paradigms that were given to mankind many thousands of years ago but unfortunately never COLLECTIVELY practised will evolve to the most giant quantum jump in humanity that ever emerged on this planet. This “golden Age” that the ancients spoke about will indeed come and we will collectively take each other by the hand to walk on our self created coldwar Egohells and we will see enlightened beings not only in some churches or temples but as presidents of countries and CEOs of multibillion dollar companies in top positions as powerbrokers of humanity and just as it became collectively standard not to shoot everybody you have a slight argument dead a much higher consciousness with its implicit collective ethics/responsibilities/philosophies will become a global standard. Of course that will take some longer period of time with a lot of birthache and resistance but it WILL definitely happen because it truly has ONLY most giant advantages once certain technologies that can transcend humanity out of the survival mode fully emerge. Actually many are already there but are still blocked by the lobbyists of the industrial dinosaurs resisting to be extinguished. So what you teach as brutal facts business doctrine is definitely only valid for some branches for some time of separated material limited Egobodymindconsciousness just as some other time in the past it was valid that without bow and flintstone you will be lost but it already started to change tremendously and FOR ABSOLUTELY SURE there are extremely successful persons who operate under COMPLETELY different paradigms and they will be pretty soon no marginal exotic strangers but even become the majority due to many very powerful and rapid shifts not only out of simple force and neccessity but a deeply awakening collective sense for responsibility and duty in a rising spiritual awareness of many many individuals building up and globally unifying themselves to a new collective consciousness deeply supported by a loving Godsource of infinite possibilities, knowledge, opportunities. We truly will become globally en mass so absolutely tired of competiting with, fighting against and exploiting each other, so truly sick of all the nightmares, desasters, hells, destruction and exploitation we caused each other that we will repent down to our very core essence of all these deluded and distorted ways of life that for literally thousands of most obvious and self-evident reasons and factors (not just the tiny few I named) this sparated Egoratrace and the fears and deeply limited consciousness that generated it will transform into a much much more benevolent, healthier, lovelier and sustainable, regenerative future and this has nothing to do with wishful utopic thinking but most realistic neccessities.
   The full much more complex and refined story you may read in a couple of years in my then finished and really without tiniest doubt bestselling books, dear Henry
   Its truly only our Ego that whispers permanently such conclusions as you exposed now in our ear and of course finds millions of “proofs and rockhard even scientific evidence” for all its claims, yet always and only acting as a dog biting its very own tail over and over again. All conclusions drawn from an insane fundament that attempt to operate “successfully” under insane conditions in an insane world will naturally just contribute to the insanity of the problem because they dont target the rootcause to change the insane fundaments, consciousness, modus operandi, philosophies to a sane and holistic way of living and doing that they just remind me to an alcoholic advising his fellows to become sober by taking dozens of green, purple, yellow, blue and red pills…..
   Why not changing the entire painful outlook so that no painnarcotizing is needed ? That is possible and its definitely possible in business as well, countless people demonstrated it, me just one of them. But -of course- its not possible in industries of an utmost exploiting industrial mode that was distorted from day 1 and will definitely disappear from this world - simply because this cancer on the planet is MEANT to disappear as this planet and its people are meant to heal. This constant running in the hamsterwheel will NEVER give you real satisfaction and fullfilment, dear Henry but will just drain you out and leave you emptyhanded and emptyhearted even if made another million, in fact this brutal process has already took its brutal toll and drove you to write about brutal “facts”
   The Ego is like a restless emperor wasting his entire life with conquering nation over nation always huntings for some imaginary illusive state of mind when finally everything is achieved and all conditions and requirements are finally met so that one can be satisfied, at peace and happy.
   Of course this day never comes like that and after all crusades shortly before his own death of body our emperor has to understand that the futility of the whole endeavour brought just illusions of peace, glory, joy and happiness and inflicted pain and suffering on many others for no reason at all as all these things we try to achieve in the outside will never develop/change/satisfy/heal our INSIDE in any lasting way as this is truly a completely and entirely different process…..
   And right now, in this historic moment of our human evolution there is a growing number of people that becomes deeply aware of the rules and laws of the entirely different process that was already since millennias described by few masters but now many begin to understand what was really meant and how it can be realized. I so incredibly much wished I could just fully and completely give you and everybody the experience I and multithousands of others had as it would fill you with deepest joy, love, hope, knowledge, peace beyond any doubts and fears of our otherwise ever restless Egomind. I really wish it would be possible yet even many brilliant books can just give a glimpse of it and even after reading the best of them a few day after it just one argument or accident and most of it is already forgotten and most people return to their doubt/fearful business as usual and a way of life we were NEVER meant to live. I wish most people wouldnt need all this deep pain and suffering to break free to their true nature yet at least no matter how hopeless things might look temporarily for somebody I have the certainity that its really just a question of time that everybody awakens from the nightmarish illusion of “brutal facts” to their true spiritual identity and home.
   I lived for 42 years as a highly intelligent scientific well paid Atheist or Agnostic yet I never had any real peace of mind and heart before my NDE and would have agreed to your opinion to some vast extend, dear Henry. Thanks God I now know more and better and now strive to repair the deep damage done by the religious distortions to realign many people all across the globe to their deep dormant and mostly undiscovered spiritual power to unfold their unique fullfilling superabundant life that -once it is brought into deepest spiritual accordance and reconciled with their body, mind, heart & soul- starts to almost effortlessly flourish and bloom where before all deepest, most fervent struggle, stress and fight for survival of the “brutal facts” didnt bring even 10% of the later results when deepest spiritual truths, laws and knowledge were integrated and ignited with love. I wish that everybody could open up to this heaven on earth and try by writing my books my very best to make my power and knowledge available to infinite people but of course reading even the best books is just a beginning and I know how sceptic, blinded, doubt and fearful I was before this experience myself as the “reality” that our Ego perceives through our senses and our biased collective hurt, fear, resentments, wounds is never short to find millions of justifications, alibis, excuses to resist continously to forgive, heal, love, transform and grow so far beyond fear that all limits cease to exist and all distorted perceiption of reality are surrendered to love. To give some readers an idea of the experience here at the end a link to a brilliant guy holding many US patents after his NDE that comes so close to my experience in many details that I just burst in tears when I read it the first time after I came “accidentally” across it while searching for some lyrics on the internet:
   http://www.mellen-thomas.com/stories.htm .
   Thousands of most profound testimonies you find at: http://www.nderf.org/ .
   The reason why I post this is that without some deepest OWN experience or at least deepest spiritual understanding/knowledge one will have utmost difficulty to trust GOD or him/herself ever really deep enough to leave the all to logical ways of the brutal facts of our fearbased Egomind and this is the REAL BRUTAL TRAGEDY since the rewards of understanding the real reality as described in these testimonies of Thomas Mellen and many others are so absolutely immense that missing it is almost like wasting ones entire life and I am the living proof for that and though I wished everyone could wake up to this deepest loving understanding I know that everyone must take the time and efforts him/herself to grow deeply in utmost practical spiritual consciousness and if I could motivate some readers to really read through the links provided it was worth taking the time for writing this comment. One can really be sure that these are by NO means some spiritual fairytales, in fact there is such a superabundance of proof and I work as well on some profound, most reliable techniques to teach sceptics to connect themselves to the infinite knowledge/wisdom of the universal consciousness and to experience our truly immortal eternal spiritual nature as it brings such an utmost transformation into ones life and some true, lasting remedy from the haunting illusion of the reality of the brutal facts Henry mentions. Yes, this reality exists surely but it is ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE for everyone to create ANOTHER much more pleasant, joyful, rewarding, sustainable and cooperative reality and in fact our collective wellbeing as a species on this planet depends on this creation of another reality. I hope you enjoy the link, Mellens NDE is such a similar and most astounding, fascinating experience as I had the fortune to encounter and everybody does him/herself the greatest service to deeply educate him/herself on the subject as it will change your life to deep joy, happiness, peace and personal empowerment. Best wishes to you and all readers, dear Henry.
   Marcus, Germany

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